returning the butter
n.β Β«For a man to marry, he had to have land to grow bananas. Even the gifts he took to the brideβs parents had to include matooke. After the marriage, when the bride did what came to be called βreturning the butterβ, she took to her parentsβ home a number of gift items, including matooke.Β» ββWhy the Baganda Adore Their Land” by Bob Kisiki New Vision (Kampala, Uganda) July 23, 2004. (source: Double-Tongued Dictionary)