gay vague
adj.β Β«Many men have migrated to a middle ground where the cues traditionally used to pigeonhole sexual orientationβhair, clothing, voice, body languageβare more and more ambiguous. Make jokes about it. Call it what you will: “gay vague” will do.…The new convergence of gay-vague style is not to be confused with metrosexuality, which steered straight men to a handful of feminine perks like pedicures, scented candles and prettily striped dress shirts.Β» ββGay or Straight? Hard to Tell” by David Colman New York Times June 19, 2005. (source: Double-Tongued Dictionary)