FLOP
n.β Β«Often the groomβs family pays for whatβs known as FLOPβflowers, liquor, orchestra and photography/videographyβand the brideβs family covers the reception. This usually comes out even, according to Rosenthal, especially since the brideβs family, usually local, has more guests than the groomβs family, often from out of town.Β» ββWho pays for what at todayβs Jewish weddings?” by Jane Ullman Jewish Journal (New York City) Aug. 10, 2007. (source: Double-Tongued Dictionary)