lack the grapes
v. phr.β Β«A similar thread came up on the OβReilly Mac Bloggerβs internal mailing listβwriters fed up with endless snarking and small-minded mean-ness from readers lacking the grapes even to use their real names.Β» ββMean People Suck” by Scot Hacker Scot Hackerβs Foobar Blog July 26, 2006. (source: Double-Tongued Dictionary)