squick v.— «What I do in the scene I do because it turns me on, or, because it’s something that turns my partner on and doesn’t squick me.» —“Re: fear of anger” by Richard Chandler Usenet: alt.sex.bondage Oct...
donkey punch n.— «The Donkey Punch is sometimes employed during gay sex acts. When going at it for a while the bottom of the “bottom” can get too relaxed, so the “top” can lose enjoyment. To orgasm, the man on top...
frubbly adj.— «One word in the polyamory lexicon is “frubbly,” which describes the positive feeling of seeing your partner with another lover.» —“The Language of Love for Polyamorists” by John von...
babymoon n.— «The transition to fatherhood is easier when a man can take time off to be with his partner and baby in what I call a “Babymoon.” A couple lay in food and other necessities, lock the door, and go to bed with their...
kreisel n.— «Instead of rectangular tanks, she and her partner, Debbie Melechinsky, use a piece of 10-inch PVC pipe to round out the corners of the tank. It’s called a “kreisel,” from the German word for carousel...
discordant couple n.— «In the discordant couple phenomenon, one partner is HIV-positive, while the other remains negative, even as they continue to live together as man and wife or simply maintain a long-term relations.» —“Aids...