hopium
n.— «A hopium addict is someone who puts their own emotional needs on hold, while they wait for their partner to kick their addiction—be it to drugs, alcohol, gambling, or emotionally and physically abusive behaviour—despite all the evidence to the contrary.» —“Are You A Hopium Addict?” by Annie Kaszina SelfGrowth.com Nov. 7, 2004. (source: Double-Tongued Dictionary)
Further reading
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