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Which is it? Bored "with" or bored "of"?
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2011/12/02 - 2:38pm

Can someone help me with this one?   Perhaps I haven't noticed it before, but it seems that no one is ever bored "with" anything these days; instead, they are bored "of" something.    

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2011/12/02 - 3:04pm

My guess is that bored of is influenced by tired of. I wouldn't correct folks, but it is pretty easy to avoid in your own language.

You omit the option of bored by, which I think is a good substitute for bored of. For me bored of and bored by convey a slight nuance of the more passive victim, whereas bored with seems more active. This is not a strict division, but a personal observation.

I would tend to choose bored with for an activity in which I am engaged, or in which I once was interested, but no longer:
I am bored with this book.
I am bored with this game.
I am bored with this tea.

I would tend to choose bored by for a situation to which I am subjected, or which I never held interest in:
I am bored by his complaining.
I am bored by this painting.
I am bored by this TV show.

Again, describing my choices, if I were to say:
"I am bored with country music" I would most likely mean that I used to enjoy it, but no longer.
"I am bored by country music" I would most likely mean that I simply don't find it enjoyable, and probably never did.

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2011/12/02 - 4:41pm

Thanks.   That is very helpful.

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