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Just read this phrase in a reputable magazine and was reminded of an incident from a few years ago ...
A friend asked me a question about my availability for an event. My response was "That's a definite maybe." He reacted like I'd violated some rule of grammar or conversation, and was offended by my "lack of commitment."
Made perfect sense to me though, since my intent was to convey "I won't say no, but ... etc." so I just went with what seemed to me to be the logical equivalent, but a helluvalot more concise. It apparently made no sense to my friend (even after I explained myself).
My question is whether anyone else has heard this, used it, is comfortable with it, or has a better phrase with the equivalent meaning.
I have certainly used the phrase, sparsely, for many years, sometimes varying the adjective to something like emphatic. It can mean: "That's a very good question, which I cannot possibly answer."; or "Too many variables at this time; circumstances will determine."; or "That is none of your concern." It is useful, to my mind clear, and I am quite comfortable with it. To be sure, I can see see how it might be disconcerting to some people, but sometimes that's where the fun is.
You probably have all the logics on your side Dan. But are most us earthlings logical creatures as a rule?
You should get whole ranges of reactions. If your listener is in the right mood, they would follow up to probe for profound meanings. If they're short fused, they might think you are messing with their head. If they are prospective employer wanting to know what you think of the job, there go any chances of any call back.
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